Dating in your 30's

Dating in your 30's have been challenging. I have been in nothing but long term situations in all my teens. Now my 30's have arrived and it seems as if all my friends are settling down and having babies, but the question in the back of my head still remains.. Are they happy? No one hears the conversations and the constant complaints coming from them about their significant others. I never judge. I'm smart enough to know every relationship has their own problems and no one is perfect. Yet, the older gentlemen in my life keep asking the million dollar question.. When am I going to settle down? Choosing a partner to give myself to has been a challenge, I can't even lie to you. The men that have been finding me seem so troubled. I just don't think they can mentally handle my legacy. I have dated younger and older and what I am beginning to realize is that it isn't really about the age, but more about the timing. I have met some individuals who I thought would have fit in my life well, yet the timing wasn't right and we both fumbled effortlessly. I still plan to keep my eyes open and go in every situation with an open mind. The idea is to never, and I mean NEVER bring your old baggage into any new situation. Every individual is worth a fresh start, now how they handle that type of investment is completely up to them. Someone should have wrote a playbook for this. I will be the first to admit that I am having a tough time figuring out what I want. I have yet to sit down and figure that part out just yet. I think I should make time to do that before my next blog. And if those of you haven't already, click the link above and follow me!

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HeavensxAngel