Single Women in America

Many of us stare at the pictures of the past, where there were two people who worship one another. Many of us Fein for the success story. The partner that loves us, the big house, cars, financial stability as well as the children. Many of us have already pictured our future life before we could even legally get into a club or buy alcohol. As the years past, many of us lose hope that the success story we dreamed about is no longer believable and reality sets in. Then many

women begin to settle. Settle for the partners with multiple kids by multiple people, settle for the poor partner with no ambition, settle into lifestyles because of how comfortable we may be or scared of how long it may take for us to meet the one that isn’t wew we just perfect to the world, but perfect for us and our lifestyles. I cannot stretch enough how important it is for women to take the time to focus on themselves. There is always someone watching you, watching your progression, seeing how you handle certain situations, that person is planning a life with you, and you had no idea. Quit settling. Take time to focus on you. Date yourself after a failed relationship. Work on what makes you upset, jealous, mad, etc. Learn to control your emotions. Take the time to learn about you so you understand yourself better than anyone. Until you are comfortable with being a 3rd, 5th, 7th, 9th, 11th or even 13th wheel without any ill intentions, then you are not ready for commitment. Couples should feel comfortable enough to express their love in front of you without thinking it may offend you. While dating, pay attention to key words that are thrown around in conversations with other partners. They have already determined what their plans for you are. Just listen carefully. And if you like someone, stop being afraid to admit it. The worst they can say is no and by then a greater opportunity has already presented itself. Choose wisely!

xoxo

HeavensxAngel