Raised In a Broken Home!

The world is such an experience. Many of us grow up in broken homes. A broken home can be a blessing and/or a curse. We grow up in certain surroundings, in certain situations that was meant to break us down. How we react in certain situations and what we do next, is what defines us. Certain situations are meant to hurt us, but little do we know it builds character. The challenges we are presented with in our adulthood, is meant to expose our vulnerability from our childhood. So many people are broken from childhood traumas and are too afraid to seek help from others to help close those chapters and become a better individual. Many need to learn, that no one from your past owes you anything, you owe yourself everything. Let go of that pain, let go of that hurt and focus on yourself. The more people can get a reaction out of you, the more control they have over you. Can you imagine waking up happy, going to work and someone triggers those past emotions, which makes your day worst? Someone having the power to make you go from being happy to miserable in ten minutes should you encourage you to take control of your life. Who wants to live like that, seriously?

Growing up in a broken home, my father was not there physically because of the system. He called as much as he could, and we went to visit him as often as we could. My mother never had different men running in and out of our home. The only other man I have ever seen with my mother besides my father was my stepfather. So many people don't believe in stepparents. I do. I think it hurts the children more watching their parents staying in a miserable environment for the sake of them. Why stay somewhere you are not happy? Me personally, I would rather my parents be happy with other people than to stay somewhere they are not happy for the sake of my benefit. As long as there are two parents in one household that can show the children what real love looks like, they will be happy with whatever decision their parent's make. You cannot just choose anyone to be with you. Make sure you pay attention to someone's actions around your child. To successfully blend, your spouse has to be fair with all the children. Your spouse should not only worry about the seeds they created. Your spouse has to be willing to successfully team up with you, so all children feel equal. That creates a successful blend that benefits each individual in the household POSITIVELY.

xoxo

HeavensxAngel